I don’t miss you

I don’t miss you I miss things about you, about you with me I miss little things that made us “us” the simple things that made me feel part of a couple that made me smile, feel warm, safe, loved one night a week but for that one night I was a part of somethingContinue reading “I don’t miss you”

That was then, this is now

So, when was the last time you were actually dating? Like really dating, just going out with different people to see if you click, looking for “the one” to build a life with for oh maybe the next fifty years? I don’t know about you, but I was 25. I’m not a “math person” butContinue reading “That was then, this is now”

What are the rules again?

What’s the best way to tell someone you’ve gone out on a date with that you’re not interested in seeing them again? And when is it acceptable to deliver this message, after the first date or the second? What about after the third date? What if you’ve slept with them by the third date, canContinue reading “What are the rules again?”

.com my lovelife

I’ve been divorced for almost four years now, after a twenty year plus marriage, and have not had a relationship since. Nothing past a date or two. Crazy as that sounds to most divorced people my age. I had tried the online dating thing, for about a hot minute, right after my divorce was finalContinue reading “.com my lovelife”