Musings about life, love and the pursuit of happiness
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What are the rules again?
What’s the best way to tell someone you’ve gone out on a date with that you’re not interested in seeing them again? And when is it acceptable to deliver this message, after the first date or the second? What about after the third date? What if you’ve slept with them by the third date, can…
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Random texter
I was home alone, with mixed feelings about being home alone, trying to stay busy while also trying to enjoy the quiet of an empty house. A delicate balance. It was too quiet though… It was my ex’s birthday, and my kids were with him to celebrate as expected, most likely in some elaborate way…
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Just ask.
I am willing to admit that I’m not one to pick up on signals very quickly. I can be pretty dense sometimes, a little slow on the uptake you might say, but I also like to believe that I can generally read people pretty well. I can get a feeling, pick up on a “vibe”,…
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.com my lovelife
I’ve been divorced for almost four years now, after a twenty year plus marriage, and have not had a relationship since. Nothing past a date or two. Crazy as that sounds to most divorced people my age. I had tried the online dating thing, for about a hot minute, right after my divorce was final…
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Beetlejuice…
It seems to be what happened that day, there really is no other explanation. He had been nearly gone from mind and soul, our lives were a bit more buoyant and relaxed, only punctuated by a random text every 4-6 weeks to the boys…to check if they still had a pulse, if they still remembered…
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Silver linings
I knew that I was free, but I didn’t realize how sweet that freedom truly was until now.
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